Marie Kondo, the renowned decluttering expert, has admitted that maintaining a pristine home, a tenet of her popular KonMari method, is an "impossible standard" in the face of parenthood. In a recent interview, Kondo, now a mother of three, highlighted the importance of prioritizing family time over relentless tidiness.
Kondo's shift in perspective is a testament to the practical realities of raising a family. While previously known for her meticulously organized approach and the best-selling book "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up," she now emphasizes the value of accepting a certain level of domestic messiness.
"My home is messy, but it's the right way for me at this stage of my life," Kondo stated. "Now, I realize what's important is enjoying time with my children. There simply isn't enough time in the day to maintain the same level of tidiness. It's never worth tidying up at the expense of bringing negative energy to the family."
This new outlook contrasts with Kondo's previously rigorous approach. Her earlier method emphasized a systematic decluttering process—starting with clothes, then books, papers, miscellaneous items, and sentimental possessions—and identifying those items that "spark joy." This acknowledgment of her own limitations suggests a significant shift in priorities.
Her struggles with perfectionism, which she described as leading to physical and emotional exhaustion, are also explored. The demands of parenthood, particularly in balancing work and family, have altered her perspective, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing time with her children. Kondo's admission that tidiness is not a daily imperative is reflective of the challenges faced by many parents juggling complex schedules.
Kondo, however, maintains a commitment to sharing her insights. Her hope is that acknowledging the complexities of parenting will help others feel less pressured to maintain impossible standards of cleanliness. The KonMari method remains a significant resource for those seeking organization, but the evolving message highlights the importance of balance and acceptance in daily life.
